The Science of Charisma: Presence, Power, and Warmth
- •Charisma is a blend of Presence, Power, and Warmth.
- •Presence means being fully in the moment (no phone scanning).
- •Power is competence and confidence, conveyed through posture and voice.
- •Warmth (smiling, open body language) validates your power.
Charisma isn't magic. It's a specific blend of non-verbal cues that signal three things: Presence, Power, and Warmth. This framework, popularized by behavioral researchers, explains why we represent some people and ignore others.
1. Presence
Presence is the foundation. It means being fully in the moment. When you are talking to someone, do not look at your phone. Do not scan the room. Lock eyes (softly) and listen. Presence signals: "You are the most important person to me right now."
2. Power
Power doesn't mean dominance; it means the ability to affect the world around you. It is conveyed through posture (shoulders back), voice (steady, downward inflection), and taking up space. It signals: "I am competent and safe."
3. Warmth
Power without warmth is intimidating. Warmth is conveyed through smiling, nodding, and open body language (palms visible). It signals: "I have good intentions toward you."
The Charisma Formula
High Power + High Warmth = Charisma. High Power + Low Warmth = Scary. Low Power + High Warmth = Nice but forgettable. Wildfire Coach helps you calibrate this balance by giving you feedback on your delivery style.
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