What is Push-Pull? | Social Dynamics Glossary
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Push-Pull

Definition

"A flirting technique that mixes signs of interest (Pull) with playful disqualification (Push)."

Understanding Push-Pull

Constant interest (Pull) is boring and needy. Constant disinterest (Push) is rude. Push-Pull creates emotional tension. Example: "You are consistentely the most interesting person here (Pull), even if you have terrible taste in drinks (Push)."

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