GlossaryDating
The Pedestal
Definition
"Elevating a potential partner to a status of perfection, thereby lowering your own relative status."
Understanding The Pedestal
When you put someone on a pedestal, they have no choice but to look down on you. It creates an imbalance where you are the "fan" and they are the "celebrity." Healthy attraction requires seeing the other person as a flawed, equal human being.
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